Excuse Me While I Overshare
Do you know how hard it is to find a bridge in Chicago that doesn’t have water under it? Hard I tried! The first bridge was too near a friends school and I would feel terrible adding a bad memory to his experience so I kept looking. I walked well past downtown looking for a …
I had an absolutely engaging conversation via text w a man Dec 5th to the 9th. On the 9th I simply stopped responding. Not because his conversation wasn’t great. Not because he had said something to disinterest me. Apparently I had moved on. I moved on to the point that I found this thread while …
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“You're thinner than you are in your pictures.. I'm not really into that"
He told me that if I gave him two thousand then he can flip it to twenty... It was in that moment that I knew that there was more than one type of product in that truck..Who am I kidding.. WE ALL KNEW WHAT HE WAS CARRYING IN THAT TRUCK! Months have passed since our last …
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Him: I feel most empowered when I am able to help others achieve their dreams which is my goal in life Me: what are you doing to achieve this goal of yours? Him: I'm just blessed to see 2020 Me: There was no need to continue this conversation. Thankfully I do not attract the men …
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It's been a while since the last dating update and I am glad to say that it's not for lack of events. As a surprise to me the consistency of swipes were from actual men who were... consistent. Now this wasn't always great but it was certainly worthy of my time and made a good …
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He asked me if we can consider ourselves a couple.. Don't get too excited!! I asked that we table it. [Online Dating Update] This past week was quite the sampler platter of interactions. Not the good sampler where you ordered it as a meal cause they were all delicious. More like one that you buy …
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"As soon as the bell rings I'm going to punch you in the face." and that is exactly what he did. It was second period in our block scheduling for the 8th grade at Robinson Middle school. I was seated at a table of four listening intently to the teacher because.. school. Along with me …
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I suffer from comparison. There's always someone thinner, prettier, more witty, quieter, exceptionally dressed-er, more worthy of your time than me. I'm dope. That fact is sewn into my being but..
I legit fell from a chair today!! The leg bent and I slid all the way to the ground in my traditional Senegalese garb. I felt it happening. The stability leaving. The feeling of insecurity and then "DOWN GOES FRAZIER!!" I tried to act casual and immediately got up and sat back in the chair …
Starring Courtny 